What is True Love?
We spend our time worrying about what our partner feels about us or what the relationship looks like from the outside and although it is good to be loved by another person each of us can only truly feel his own feelings of love towards another person and not that person's feelings towards us and from In order to connect and maintain these loving feelings within us, we must take loving actions, otherwise we may live in a fantasy.
It can be frustrating at times, but it's really fun to accept the fact that the only person we have any real control over in the relationship is ourselves. We are responsible for our other half. Therefore, we can choose whether to engage in behaviors that destroy intimacy or to take actions that express feelings of love, compassion, affection, respect and kindness in order to consciously and consistently choose the latter.
A relationship thrives when both people are in touch with a lively, open and vulnerable side of themselves welcoming new experiences We don't have to love everything our partner enjoys and participate in, but sharing new activities, visiting new places and breaking a routine often sparks new life into a relationship that feels vibrant for both parties. .
Telling the truth is one of the first lessons that most of us learn as children, however as adults there can be a lot of deception in our closest relationships. When we are not being honest with our partner, we cause significant stress in the relationship to harm ourselves, and in order to feel vulnerable with our partner, we must trust them and it cannot be achieved. That is only through honesty.
Affection is a big part of the way we express love, and when we cut ourselves off from our emotional feelings, we tend to undermine the relationship and this weakens the spark between us and our partner and sex life can become routine or impersonal and as a result, both partners feel more distant and less. Satisfaction. Keeping love alive means staying in touch with a part of ourselves that wants physical contact and is ready to give and receive affection.